[and now it's august]

Time just seems to get away from me...it seems like only yesterday since my last post but it's been almost two months.  I keep telling myself I am going to get better at this blogging thing.

June was made up of dance recital (see my last post), piano recital and Word of Life Camp.  For the last three summers, George and Daniel and I head to upstate New York to the Adirondack Mountains to attend WOL camp.  It is a Christian camp for 6 year to 18 year olds.  Of course since the trip is 12 hours one way the adults have to stay the week.  There is just as much to do for the adults as the kids.  We have such a blast.  Bible study multiple times a day, all of our meals are provided, hanging out with the most awesome friends and spending some time together as a couple.  It is sad to leave Daniel & Olivia for a week but it won't be long before they will be attending with us.

July brought in Vacation Bible School.  This is my favorite event at uor church.  VBS goes from infant to adult.  There is a place for everyone and so many decisions were made this year by kids and adults.  It is awesome to be a part of.

July brought with it sadness as George's mom went home to be with the Lord on July 28th.  She had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer just 3 weeks ago.  They told us it would progress quickly but I don't think we expected it to be quite this fast.  George and I were there when she passed and it was a very humbling experience but knowing that she is in Heaven brings us comfort.  We had the visitation on Friday night and a graveside service yesterday.  Our awesome church family provided a luncheon for family and friends.  We are so blessed to be a part of Unity Baptist Church.  We were able to see some family that we have not seen in a really long time.

 

So today is the first day of August...I do plan to get better at this blogging thing.

[what a week]

Wow, what a busy week we've had in the Ellis household...dance recital for Olivia from Wednesday through Saturday.  She did great.

Daniel had piano recital yesterday.  We are very proud of him and hope that he will continue with it next year.

Had our end of the year celebration for our church kids program this afternoon...a pool party.  A good time was had by all and the rain held out.  Thanks God!

Back to work tomorrow...and only 2 1/2 days left of school.  Woohoo!

[so long, insecurity]

Woohoo!  Another one down...on to the next.  Great book...I highly recommend it even if you don't think you have an insecurity issue.

[spring has sprung]

Wow...Spring is in full bloom and I can't believe it has been so long since I last blogged.  One of my resolutions for 2010 was to blog more but I have been in a slump.  There is tons going on in my head but I haven't been able to get it out on paper (so to speak).  Life continues to be busy as we wind down the school year.  Saying goodbye to 1st grade, 3rd grade and 7th grade.  Dance recital, piano recital, Word of Life award celebration, end of gymnastics, finished up an awesome Bible study tonight...and the list goes on.

Hopefully the summer will be somewhat relaxing and we will have wonderful family time along with some time spent reflecting, preparing to go on to New York to WOL camp and a missions trip to West Africa.

Life continues on...

[spring is almost here]

Well February came and went...I thought March was the whirlwind month.  It looks like Spring may actually be on the way after 3 snow storms this Winter.  The time changes tonight and I am so looking forward to having more daylight in the evenings.  I am looking forward to all the trees and flowers blossoming and the smell of Spring.  As I write this I am looking out my living room window and the daffodils are already blooming a beautiful bright yellow and the grass is getting green.  The kids actually played outside today.  I am working through my reading list...slowly it seems.  My baby girl turned 7 and had her first sleepover.

I am attending a bible study at my friend Becky's church and loving meeting new people and studying God's Word.  Bible study is such an important part of my life and I feel like something in my life is missing if I am not in a study.  There is nothing like being in a group of Sisters in Christ talking about how God is working in our lives.

So here we are in the middle of March...2010 is already flying by!

[end of January]

I have decided that I am going to treat the last day of each month like January 1st.  I will take a look at the previous month while it is still fresh on my mind and I will look toward the next month and set some goals.  So, at the end of January I accomplished a few things.  I organized my kitchen desk drawers (see this), I developed my reading list for 2010.  I will finish my first book today from that list...The Worn Out Woman (When Life is Full and Your Spirit is Empty) - Stephens & Gray.  One down, many more to go.  I have started on reading the Bible in one year with two of my bestest friends.  I finished a Bible study (Begin with Christ) that started in November 2009.  Along with all of the other everyday stuff that must get done.  So on to February...I will post more about it later this week.

[enough snow]

The Ellis household is ready for Spring.  The 4 or so inches of snow in December was great and just enough.  The 12 inches we received today is too much.  We went with our church to Acquire the Fire in Richmond last night, left this morning about 7 am and traveled I-95.  Whew, what a mess.  They ended up ending ATF early so by the time we left around 11 am the roads were a mess.  We were so excited to get home.  As of right now my kids have not asked once to go outside which is fine by me!

[relaxin]

I have not done much today...which I am trying to convince myself is a good thing.  I have a four day weekend that began yesterday.  I spent most of Friday working on church stuff...updating websites, making posters for upcoming events, sending emails about upcoming events, etc.  I also cleaned up my email...I deleted almost 300 emails and got my inbox down to 19 emails.  So it was a pretty productive day.  I am spending my Saturday catching up on my QT, my Bible study and reading the first of the many books I listed in a previous post.  I cleaned the kitchen but haven't gotten the motivation to fold the many, many loads of clothes that are in my bedroom floor.  I had also planned to work on taxes today but that will have to wait for another day.  So me and my little girl are going to watch a movie while the "boys" are out doing something (going to the hobby shop I think).  I love Saturdays.

[catching up]

Here we are deep into week 2 of the new year. Spending this weekend catching up on everything that needs to be done. So much of my life is "catching up." Catching up on laundry, housework, agendas for meetings, paperwork for bills, church, work, Bible study, Quiet Time (should I have to catch up on QT, doesn't seem right does it?). I still struggle with getting it all done and not allowing the urgent to overtake the important. But even the important has to be prioritized.


I'm not kidding myself into believing that it will all get caught up today but the things that HAVE to be done today will get done. Of course that doesn't mean the IMPORTANT will get done today. I still have so far to go in getting it all together while trying to simplify my life..hhmmm.

[reading list]

I love to read...as a child I read all the time.  When I graduated from college it seemed like I stopped reading.  Maybe 5 years of reading text books did me in for a while.  Then came infants and toddlers and finding the time to read was almost impossible.  But in 2009 my love for reading came alive again.  So I spent some time this past week looking at all the books I have in my mini-library.  And yes it is a mini-library.  I have to box alot of them up because I don't have enough room for them.  Right now there are two stacks of books on my bedroom floor.  As a side note...when we finally finish our basement I want to have built in bookshelves so that I will have plenty of room for them all.

As promised, here is my reading list for 2010 (not in any particular order)...and I already own everyone of them with the exception of "So Long Insecurity".  It releases on February 2nd but I have already ordered it.  A few of them I have read before, but most of them I have not.  They have been sitting on my shelf, some for years.  So I have decided that I am not buying any new books in 2010 because I have plenty to read.  I just have to check them out. 

Five Love Languages of Children - Chapman
Have a New Kid by Friday - Leman
90 Minutes in Heaven - Piper
What Every Christian Ought to Know - Rogers
Simplify Your Life - Ramsland
Simplify Your Time - Ramsland
Master Leaders - Barna
The Messies Manual - Felton
Organizing for Life - Felton
Organizing Your Day - Felton
Organizing Magic - Felton
Breathe - Kent
The Worn Out Woman (When Life is Full and Your Spirit is Empty) - Stephens & Gray
Give God A Year - Lewis
So Long Insecurity - Moore
The One Year Bible for Women (NLT)

Check back in December to see how far I get...if I get half way through this list I will be happy!

[happy new year's resolutions]

2010 - another year (and decade) is upon us. One of my resolutions is to blog more...I still have our family blog but this blog is about the changes that I am trying to make, with God's help, with me. The changes I am working on in 2010 center around spiritual, emotional, mental and physical. I will be focusing on my role as a Christian, a wife, a mom, a daughter, a sister, a friend, an employee...

My list of resolutions is very long as it is each year but I am planning to document them throughout 2010. I won't be able to start them all today and I wouldn't even begin to try but I will keep the list in front of me everyday so that I can focus on what God would have me do that specific day. So here goes...

The first resolution is to organize my house (a better term is probably declutter) which is no easy feat for me. I am not by nature a domestic diva, far from it actually. I am a perfectionist and so it is easier for me to not do something that to do it half-way. I chose for my first project my desk in the kitchen.

Here are the before pictures...

And the after...

Don't ask me where all that stuff went...some did go in the trash (yeah!!) but some went in a box in my basement. In about 6 months I will go through that box and if I haven't needed or used any of it by then, then it has to go.

The next resolution is to read more (with a lot less TV)...I will share my reading list tomorrow.

[happy new year 2010]

I don't have the heart to take down the Christmas decorations today so it will have to wait until tomorrow. As I looked at the kids' tree yesterday I reflected on the many wonderful Christmas' we have had already and the many more to come. Each year, since my kids each were born they have received a Hallmark dated ornament. Last year we had accumulated so many that they we needed a new tree just to hold them all. Their first 5 Christmas' were a series and then after that I pick a special one for each of them. As Daniel gets older it gets harder but it's still fun to shop for them. I took pictures of their very first ornaments and then the ones they received this year.



Daniel 1996/2010


Dalton 2000/2010


Olivia 2003/2010